February 11, 2022
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I'm OK I guess :-)
Michel reminded me that I'm not up to date here when he posted on my FB, which is fine and I'm glad someone cares how we are. I'm even posting less there as the page is gone wonky. I try to comment on a post and the page jumps up where I can't see what I'm writing and it is annoying. They even restricted me for 90 days on timeline for posting a funny photo someone had put up and for a quote someone had made, neither their fact checkers could verify. I noticed after I protested now the restriction is gone.
I am having a hard time sitting in this big expensive office chair with a pillow at my back and one under me, Kate bought a special one for me to sit on. This week I called pain management and ask for another injection. Last one was in November but he won't give one until he evaluates my back. So Monday I get a MRI on my left shoulder and Tues. see pain management. Or do I have the days mixed up at the moment?
Jan 16th as I was gathering trash for pick up Mr.Grey did his streak from window in the living room to the one in the dinning room. He hit my foot and knocked me over! I landed on my left side no less, hitting my shoulder on the wall and my arm the stove raised blood spots under the skin of course. Wil helped me back up and of course I worried about the cat as I landed on him too. (He was fine but hid awhile some where).
I figured muscles would be sore. The next week on Wil's birthday and his episode that sent him to the ER I ended up pushing him in a wheel chair quite a distance when no one came to get him on discharge. That reinjured the shoulder. The next day I called my primary, they responded a day later, doctor ordered an MRI on my shoulder. By the time I could be scheduled I was using my arm, just some residual pains. I decided to do it any way. Trying to pull bed covers over me at night is painful still.
I guess the rod in my leg was not injured.
Today was a beautiful day and after lunch I took the rollator and headed for a very short walk. I have missed so many days I will have to start over on the 2 blk walk.
In the meantime I got Wil into the VA clinic, that doctor thinks that episode was probably a TIA, ER missed it. They didn't even draw labs on him. That ambulance ride btw was over a thousand dollars, as was mine when I broke my femur.
Another thing holding up my posting... assembling tax information. I learned final taxes have to be filed for Carissa. As Executor of her estate it falls on me. Taxes will have to be paid on the sale of her house. Glad I haven't used any of the money in that account except for her cat.
Yesterday I learned if something happens to me the VA will only put Wil in a Veterans Hospital if they have a space and he qualifies with a disability. Otherwise he will be put in a nursing home. So I need to try and locate a memory/hospice type facility. This is of course if I die first. So I need to talk to Alice some day and update her on this info.
If I fall and break my other hip and need home care that runs about $1500 a month. Have to find out what Medicare pays on home care. They paid for our PT for that short time.
So you see the last thing I think about lately is updating.
forgive me please.
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I've missed you and pray all is well. I so look forward to your posts. About the blowing bubbles I left a bottle of bubbles at the cemetery and every time I visit (deceased Friend) I blow her some bubbles. All is good here with us. Hubby's memory is getting worse but so far he's doing good. Hope to see a post from u soon. HUGS
Drop us a line. Let your fans know how you are. I check your blog daily. Take care.
Sasha where did I put the FB link to check?
I sent it in the email with phone no.
Your Facebook link doesn’t work. Email your phone number to me, I’m not sure if I still have it: sashadegn@gmail.com
Mary I didn't have my hip replaced. I had a rod put in the fractured femur. First major bone I've ever had broken. I do remember they all are painful at the time.
today I bought me a big jar of bubbles to blow. Memory of the year Scott brought me one. I love blowing them, I even sat on Scott's grave one year and did it.
I also spend a whole lot of time sitting. Maybe I should not have fired the lady that did my floors. Can't find another.
Had to go back and read previous posts to try and find out what happened to Wil. Still didn't find the post where you had your hip replaced. If I did read about it, my old mind has forgotten. WOW, you sure have had a lot on your shoulders lately. Yes, I agree with Rosemary, you are a very strong lady. But we all have our breaking point, so please take care of YOU. Yes Ambulance service is expensive. I'll be 79 in September and boy this year my age has caught up to me. Slower n slower. Now it takes me all day to clean 2 rooms. Used to get all my chores done in a day. Now I do more sitting in between dusting. My back is so bad it's a wonder I can still do anything. If I can do half of what u do once I reach the 80s I'll be happy. I'm still hanging around. Usually in back ground. But I'd be lost without your posts
TY CC and Rosemary. Today instead of working I'm sitting catching up on groups and trying to make a tag or two. Lost my touch it seems.
Two more stray cats outside keep me bringing the dish in until I see my feral. sigh
Glad to see your post Bonnie. Not all the things you have been dealing with though. You soldier on and take care of whatever comes up. A strong lady! Take care and do watch out for the cat!!
You want us to forgive you? For what? For not having the stamina that you had 60 years ago?
You have done a marvelous job for Wil and your daughter - not to mention all of the felines (and yourself!) I hope that you can get back into your walking. I know that it helps you.
Yes, unfortunately, when an ambulance gives one a ride, it is not cheap.
Hugs and best wishes to you!
I am sorry , Bonnie, you still are in pain. And more Mr Grey adds his part to make you suffering .
You are courageaous and you try to organize the future of you and principally of Will.
I al glad you have posted again here. You were missing .
Be careful about you.
Love
Michel
and nice hearing from you Sasha. call me some time, same phone number
https://www.facebook.com/2bonnieb/.
Sasha I don't use the walker as much in the house, certainly not gathering trash. I 'wall walk' a lot but when my back gets bad I use the walker. My house is 925 sq.ft filled with furniture, so it is easy to touch walk. Outside it is walker. The rollator is to large to use around the house.
B, I’m still here and reading. I just haven’t come commented. Be careful with Mr. Grey! Do you not use a walker?
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