July 17, 2017
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Cut off
It is bad enough my only sister and brother cut me off after mom died but it seems my only connection to hubby's side of the family doesn't want much to do with me either. My only connection now is with Face Book. Each time I ask a question in the private part of messages I am cut down. Ask a simple question. This time I just ask if there was a service for his brother. "No" My mistake was to then ask if she had any connection with his daughter's I get:
"Yes, but as far as I know they didn't have anything...... it's their business how they handled it."Everything I grew up around was 'It's nobody's business', and to still get it is ridiculous. I get this kind of thing all the time from this woman. (she is the one that told me I could not post notice of Wil's loss on FB) I was not questioning how it was handled and I know we won't be going back to PA so wouldn't be able to visit any burial spot. It just seems the family is growing further and further apart. I dare not ask her how her mom is. I figured FB was a good way to keep in touch with the few family left for me. It's not.My immediate feeling is why tell the family anything? They won't care. Distance is the enemy it seems. Out of sight, out of mind.Rant over.
Comments (4)
@murisopsis: I found an easy way, unfriend her. If anything happens to hubby I won't bother letting them know.
Ignore the hate and post what you want - if you want to tell the world your "business" then that is your prerogative! As for the distance - when people want to be close there is no distance between two hearts.
But it is now Wil's family too.
Sad Bonnie but my family is about the same--I just go on with life the best I can. worrying about that mess will only hurt you--just keep making everyday count for you and Will--the rest is your familys loss!
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